It seems strange to place middle-aged adults in the same category as BLT’s and PB&J’s. But instead of 2 slices of bread, adults are finding themselves financially “sandwiched” between 2 generations: Their children and aging parents. This dual responsibility isn’t new but it’s now more costly than ever. On one end, parents are supporting their children past the age of 18. On the other, seniors are living longer but may not have the savings to match their longevity. And this means the middle generation is footing both bills – including dental costs. Here are some tips to help reduce dental costs:
INVEST IN YOUR CHILDREN.
Keep ahead of any future costs by focusing on preventive care. Instill good oral health habits at a young age, schedule regular dental exams anduse your benefits to help avoid any future restorative costs.
ENCOURAGE ADULT CHILDREN TO BE INDEPENDENT.
As your children get older, it’s important to set expectations. This includes their dental care and determining who will be responsible for co-pays, dental bills and overall benefit costs. Although adult children are eligible to stay on your benefits until they turn 26, it may make financial sense if they sought out their own plan sooner. Talk to them about their options and financial capabilities.
CONSIDER ALL OPTIONS FOR YOUR PARENTS
Aging seniors often have a hard time accessing dental care. Some possibilities to get them covered:
- Look at a long-term health plan. If your parents are not yet dependent on your financial assistance, have them consider a long-term plan as a safety net.
- Supplement their Medicare plan. Medicare does not cover routine dental care, but certain supplement plans and resources can help lower costs. Learn what these resources are and if they financially make sense for your family.
- Seek out an affordable individual plan. Many providers have affordable coverage for seniors over 65. Learn about some options here.
- Claim them as a dependent. The IRS will allow you to claim an elderly parent if the meet certain criteria. But this option is not always guaranteed for insurance purposes. Check with your provider to see if this is an option.
- Don’t forget about yourself. By being both a caregiver to your children and your parents, it’s easy to neglect your needs. Be sure to take care of yourself by maintaining your health, using your insurance plan, and keeping up-to-date with your dental appointments. If possible avoid dipping into your retirement savings to pay for your family’s health costs. Your financial future could depend on these costs and spending this money could mean passing on financial loss to your children.
Remember: BE GOOD TO YOURSELF. Love, honor, and value yourself. And seek support from others in the same position. There is great strength in knowing you are not alone.
(reprinted in part from www.deltadentalnjblog.com/2016/4/caught-middle-insurance-tips-sandwich-generation/